"As the author tells us, in the introduction of this delightful book: "Knowing, not just simply believing, was taught to me by Spirit very early on to be held to as a basic tenet. Belief alone, they said presupposes that something may not be true! So, at the risk of appearing egocentric or 'spiritually obsessive' I repeat that I know; I do not simply believe."
"This unquestionable faith is evident from page one and I suspect is one of the reasons why the author chose his main title for this book. However, with no disrespect to him intended, forget about the title "SPIRIT AND ME!" This is first and foremost - as the latter part is titled

THE DO-IT-YOURSELF-MANUAL FOR BUDDING MEDIUMS.

"Ken Pretty is what Psychic Researchers term a (NBM) - Natural Born Medium. For such people a part of childhood is having a doorway to a world most other children see only through horror films, or hear as 'spooky' campfire tales. Little wonder that many young gifted mediums never pursue their instincts out of childhood.
"Part One" of this book addresses the issue with a wonderfully written autobiographical account of the author's early experiences with the paranormal. The early scares, the confusion, and the feeling of being different to those around you. Here is where we discover what helped mould a once frightened schoolboy into a much-respected teacher and medium. Injected with humour wherever possible, Ken explains what it was like growing up as a Natural Born Medium, and I am sure that many readers will identify, if not take great comfort from these words.

"Part Two" begins with a look at religion though the ages - followed by the author's religious concepts and the God image as taught to him by Spirit. In fact, Parts Two and Three was learned by Ken, received from Spirit during sleep over many years. Then, at the inception of the book, his Spirit Teachers refreshed it, transmitting mentally, as he typed on the computer keyboard.
"We move on and explore what it takes to be a truly genuine medium and why Spiritualism has not made any real impact upon the world at large. This is followed by the way to find the pathway to mediumship and spiritual development.

"Part Three" is the Do-it-yourself Manual for those wanting to develop mediumship. Almost one hundred pages long; we are introduced to the importance of time and its relevance to Spirit and mediumship. A catalogue of some simple effective exercises follows and these are considered necessary for the developing medium. There are instructions on how to form and conduct circles; everything you could wish to know about Guides and Helpers, Trance Work, Physical mediumship and Astral Travelling. Written about too is Exorcism, Possession and Obsession, Psychic Art, Automatic and Inspirational Writing, Prophets, Ouija Boards, Planchettes, all forms of Dowsing and much more.
"Other talents" come specifically under the psychic heading because intrinsically, these are not mediumship. Notwithstanding, these, although more for those of a psychic rather than mediumistic bent, are of importance to the message behind the book and will be found to be of interest. That message is the searching for and the discovery of what may be best for the individual concerned. Things like Palmistry, Tarot Cards, Numerology, I Ching, Reflexology, Tea-leaf reading and Crystal Ball etc. In fact even old Aleister Crowley gets a mention!
Written in a very pleasant, chatty style it is not too intellectually demanding. Further, useful reference notes follow each main entry and information, making this one of the most comprehensive books, in print, on the subject of Mediumship.
A gifted writer as well as medium, Ken Pretty has produced one of the greatest educational books on the Spiritualist market today - a book about mediumship from a man who does not simply 'believe' - but knows.
Very highly recommended."

MALCOLM SMITH, A SCEPTIC, WROTE IN JULY 2000 IN "THE COSTA BLANCA NEWS" - AN ENGLISH NEWSPAPER IN SPAIN…

"Ken Pretty's subject is one I know little about although I have experienced déjà vu and witnessed phenomena which, however sceptical I consider myself, I found unaccountable and inexplicable. I therefore give no formalistic or pedantic opinion of his recently released book, "Spirit And Me" (Born A Medium).
"It offers no pretensions and exposes in a very frank manner, Ken's feelings, opinions and an insight into his life in a very readable manner. Ken Pretty declares that he was born a medium and having met and talked with him at length, I have no reason to doubt him.
His beliefs are deep rooted…
(Please note! The next part is written on what my book is about as in the above review. Therefore, as I do not want cause any boredom or yawning I will skip the next few paragraphs.)
…"Within and throughout this fascinating (and in his own words "gobbledegook-free') book there are adages which, were we to follow and abide by, would undoubtedly change our lives for the better. Even the most dogmatic and definitive of individuals must, at some time in their lives suffer self-doubt. Life is not perfect nor are we and Ken does not pretend to be so either.
"In "Spirit And Me" expressions such as the importance of 'Knowing - not simply believing' and learning to know oneself and using such knowledge is prevalent. Unfortunately, the rush and tumble of today's society sometimes precludes time to ponder on even these basic sentiments. However, occasionally it would not come amiss to take the time to do so. Indeed, there is much along these lines in his book that I reckon could easily be adapted to form a character building section in any good life guide…
(N.B. He writes here about my early fears, also mentioned in the above review and how, with the help of 'good' Spirit I learned to overcome these. He then writes about my time as a medium and summarises by writing the following.)
"… In one chapter Ken comments "Spiritual philosophy teaches that by developing our spiritual minds we come to certain true knowledge that 'death' is not the end; we only make a transition to another dimension.' I have no particular religious leanings but I must say that I find this sentiment rather assuring…
(He then writes of his fascination with how the "Winged Wheel" picture came about and you can read on this by clicking here)
"… "Spirit And Me" is a very open book. Whatever the faith or leaning of the reader, a sustaining few hours of enlightenment are forthcoming; there is no shortage of homespun truths and philosophy and it is written in a surprisingly easy style."

PLEASE NOTE!
Spirit has informed me, both via direct (my own helpers, etc.) and other mediums' messages, that if "Spirit And Me" (Born A Medium) was released in the USA, it would take off like a rocket!

Therefore, Publishers, agents and distributors - I need you and that means that we will both benefit!

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Recently published, this book was dictated mostly by (see Home page) "The Manna Group." It was typed over a period of five years, give or take a month, as I sat at my computer and listened to their words. Eventually, we were somewhat mutually satisfied. I write somewhat because there are always some things that have to be left out… As you would read at the end of "Spirit And Me" though, that is, perhaps, another book, another time…
"Spirit And Me" is intended to be, in its entirety, a textbook. Notwithstanding, The Manna Group, as ever, still ensured the whole held to simple, down to earth and easy to understand content. It was never intended to be boringly autobiographical (as so many are) - hence Part One only covers the things of import to the occasion during of my early life. As such the authorship is completely mine, the reason being that it contains the 'when, what, how and why' I became a medium. However, at my request, it was 'watched over', checked out and approved by Tuan (my Doorkeeper). This is not surprising either! After all, before I 'returned' this time, because of our soul compatibility, we mutually agreed that he would be my guide throughout this, my twenty-first incarnation. I bless that decision daily as I have every reason to be thankful for it. As such, what more qualified person would there be to check things out for me than the one whom, when I want him to, can almost read my every thought?

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PART ONE: About My Early Life. (How and what happened to make me a medium, including the bizarre, surrounding phenomena, etc.)

PART TWO: Religious Concepts And The God Image (as taught to me by The Manna Group" over the years)

A Scenario On Mediumship (Why it is still so weak in its impact throughout the world.)
Also The Pathway To Psychic And Mediumistic Development (prepares the way to:)

PART THREE: The Do-It-Yourself Manual For Budding Mediums. (Spanning almost a hundred pages, in this part one can read how to do all of the exercises I use in circle mediumship training. Also mediums' 'secrets', short-cuts, the way forward, how to conduct a circle, how to develop and whether or not you can attain to mediumship - and lots more as well. Indeed, here you will find all of the information you will ever need to give you, without the use of fancy 'pseudo-chic' phrases and 'footwork', the right pros and cons needed to become- and there should be no other kind - a good medium.)

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